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Oh, that's awful! :( What happened?

Congrats Jules! :thumbs:

Thanks honey. :) I've just made the consultation appointment for June 5th. It's gonna be a long process. I've gotta get my shit in order so I can leave with as little trouble as possible. Of course, if he finds out about my "friend", I might be out of the house a whole lot sooner. lol

Oh and P.S. All of you that know me on FB, just keep this divorce stuff here on BB, I don't want anyone else to know. I've told some people, but not a lot. So that means you guys have privileged information! :D

I get like this sometimes...all except "riding the bike" part LOL. We're just hardwired this way. We are the "caregivers" - we get shit done, so our brains/bodies just give us a kick in the ass sometimes to get it all done. You'll crash hard sooner or later though. :D

Thanks Jules. :) I'm trying to do it ^. :) Thing is Phil, I'm so scared! Just thinking about all my shit I'll have to pack and move/store is daunting! lol It's gonna take a while. I just made a consultation appointment for next month, just to get me pointed in the right direction so I can file in about a year. Of course, my son is fucking up in school now, not getting up in the AM, etc. Ugh! He's the reason I've stayed for so long - I wanted a stable home life for him, with no worries about money. *sigh*

Thanks hon. :) I have a lot to figure out, but I'll take my time and do it right.

Well, I finally did it...I called a lawyer and made a consultation appointment for next month...I'm shaking so bad right now...I'm scared to death! Of course, the guy I fall for is a typical musician - broke as fuck, nothing to his name lol. Holy shit, did I mention I'm scared? I'm keeping this all quiet right now because I don't want to tip my hand before I'm ready.

Ugh! Poor Chap! :( Feel better soon!

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I hear ya Jules. I was so jazzed after the game I couldn't sleep - I stayed up til 3am doing laundry. I'm dead on my feet right now. Zzzzzz

Congrats you two on your new jobs! :cheers: Good luck to you guys waiting to hear on a new job! *fingers crossed* :)

Ha! Awesome! :)

Are you trying to make her go into labor?? :eek:

Someone please bring me alcohol...or a gun...don't care which... Since the kitchen is totally gutted, I'm gonna have to wash dishes...in the bathtub...fuck me sideways...:mad:

So sorry, Parsley. :(

Oh boy, this sounds like my son...*sigh* lol

Thanks, I'm trying. :) I know what you mean, hon, but it would've been so much worse if I left and ended up in some shitty apartment with my son. At least we've been in a stable home, never worrying about where the money will come from... Thanks, JD. :)

Thanks everyone! :) I can't actually "file" yet...I just need to talk to a lawyer to get a plan in place. I gotta save up some money - those lawyers are expensive!! :eek: I need to keep this all under wraps so he doesn't know, I don't want to tip my hand. This could all go well, or it could all blow up in my fuckin' face...stay tuned...

Thanks.

Thank you, me too. I'm scared though...I feel like :puke:

I'm so done! I'm stuck here for a little while longer, but I've gotta get my shit together and figure out a plan. A lawyer is the only way to do that. My girlfriend says they're like $1,500 on retainer. Yikes!

Anyone know a good divorce attorney in CT?...

Mexican food kicked in, huh? :D

Yeah, we kinda do... :o lol