Well, I met with the lawyer last week. Basically, I'm entitled to half of everything - house, vehicles, 401k, snowmobiles, etc. - I don't want to ruin the jackass, I just want my fair share, but holy shit!! :eek: I know the money won't come to me immediately anyway. I'm gonna pay off the bills and save some money of my own, then when my gentleman friend is back among the working poor like me, I'll file and GTFO. :)