I know exactly how you feel man. When I was dating my wife, I was working nights, she was working days as a teachers assistant. Her days off were Saturday and Sunday and she coached after work until 7 2-3 days a week and had to do swim meets on some of the weekends. My schedule at work Gaza 5 nights working then 2 nights off, then 5 nights working and 3 nights off so my days off were always changing. Sometimes I saw her for like 4 hours a week if we were lucky. When I got transferred it was a little bit easier because I now have Fridays and Saturdays off, and we saw each other a little bit more. Now That we are married, we still have the same schedule, but I see her only on Friday nights and Saturdays, and Sunday morning before I leave for work. She is a city teacher now, and leaves for work at 630 in the morning when I am sleeping, and I come home at around midnight when she is sleeping, so our weekends are the only time we really see each other. We talk on the phone more than we see each other curing the week.